Pros and Cons of Cruises


If you’ve never been on a cruise you may be wondering if it’s the right type of vacation for you. And you’re not wrong to question that. While we enjoy cruising, there are aspects that can be frustrating. To help you out, we’ve compiled our pros and cons of cruises to help you understand just what you’re getting yourself into with a cruise vacation.

We’ve been on seven cruises together over the past nine years: two Alaska cruises, four Caribbean cruises and a Bahamas cruise. Prior to that, I went on a Hawaiian cruise and Grant had done two Caribbean cruises. Additionally, we have a Southern Caribbean cruise booked for 2025. I don’t know when it happened, but I think it’s safe to say that we are now “cruisers.”

After a combined 10 cruises, we’ve learned a thing or two. This means that we know what to expect and we can often find ways of making the not-so-great things at least a little bit better. So, here we go with our pros and cons of cruises.

Sunset in Roatan
Sunset at Roatan

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The Pros of Cruising

Pro: You can easily see several cities or countries

We always love a good road trip. And, let’s be honest, a cruise is a bit like a road trip on the water. Sitting in one place really isn’t our thing. We like staying busy and seeing as many different places as possible when we travel. That’s exactly what you get with a cruise.

Palm trees and rocks line the Atlantic coast of Barbados.
The Atlantic Coast of Barbados. This was one of six different countries we visited on a 7-night Southern Caribbean cruise.

Even on just a four-night cruise, you will typically visit two or three different ports. Make it a week-long cruise and it could be up to 5 or 6 stops. For anyone looking to see several different cities or countries, a cruise is a great way to do that. In fact, we have now been to 20 countries and 10 of those were on a cruise.

Of course, for some people, that might sound overwhelming. It really isn’t too bad, though. Plus, there are a ton of cruise itinerary options. When booking your cruise, just choose an itinerary that fits your preference in terms of how many stops it has compared to the number of “at sea” days.

Check out our Comprehensive Guide to Planning a Cruise.

Pro: You only have to unpack once

While we love a good road trip, even we will admit that unpacking and repacking every day or two can get old quickly. On a cruise ship, your room moves with you so you only have to unpack one time. This really might be the biggest perk of cruising!

I’ll be honest, we often take advantage of this and pack more than usual. On non-cruise vacations, we typically try to pack into as small a bag as possible since we move around a lot. With a cruise, we feel as though we can take a bit more with us since we’re not moving often. 

That is especially important on an Alaska cruise where you will need warm layers, even in the height of summer. Even on a Caribbean cruise, you’ll likely want casual clothes for sightseeing, nicer clothes for dinner, several bathing suits and maybe even workout clothes. Having room for all of this is nice!

Pro: Seemingly unlimited food and sometimes drinks

While every cruise line and even various ships are different, one thing you can almost always count on is a lot of food and drinks on a cruise. In addition to the main dining room, you’ll typically find a couple of casual options such as the buffet or maybe a pizza shop at no additional cost. You’ll also generally have two or three specialty restaurants at a small charge. Some ships even have a couple of complimentary specialty restaurants.

Regardless of whether it is included or costs extra, you certainly will not go hungry on a cruise. Additionally, you can usually get food at just about any time of the day or night. And, yes, the food is typically very good. Of course, this depends on your personal preferences and expectations. I’ll just say that we’ve never been disappointed by the food on a cruise.

When it comes to drinks, you’ll usually find a bar around just about every corner. If you know you’re going to drink a lot, check into the prepaid drink packages. These are usually available for soft drinks only, mid-level alcohol and premium alcohol. You can sometimes even get a drink package included at no additional charge. This is especially true for Norwegian Cruise Lines.

If getting unlimited drinks is important to you, be sure to look for that perk as you are booking your cruise.

Read our advice on How to Not Lose Your Waist on a Cruise.

Pro: Numerous onboard activities for cruisers of all ages

The number of onboard options definitely depends on the size of the ship. That said, even the smaller ships will do everything they can to keep you entertained, especially on days at sea.

The Norwegian Sky was probably the smallest ship we’ve been on and it had plenty to keep us busy for four nights. There was a casino, nightly shows, trivia contests, art auctions, various sports courts and special activities for kids.

Read our review of Cruising the Bahamas on the Norwegian Sky.

Larger ships will have activities such as rock climbing, mini-golf, or broadway-style shows. Royal Caribbean’s Adventure of the Seas, which is a good-sized ship but not their biggest, even had a wave/surf simulator. And the Norwegian Breakaway has a ropes course.

On at-sea days, you’ll often find games and classes throughout the day. We particularly enjoyed the martini tasting class on our Alaska cruise on the Norwegian Pearl. Similarly, we have participated in wine tastings and scotch tastings on several cruises.

Some of these activities (such as the drink tastings) will have an additional charge just to keep the number of participants reasonable. Many of them are free, though.

Pro: Easier to manage the details of the trip

Planning a trip can be overwhelming; especially a trip with several stops. That gets significantly easier on a cruise. All you have to do is book the vacation and then just get on the ship and enjoy the ride. 

Granted, you’ll probably want to book a few excursions and maybe plan a dinner in one of the specialty restaurants. Still, when compared to a typical trip with three or four stops (or more), the details are much easier to manage. The itinerary is planned for you, the food is right there and you’ve got plenty of activities to keep everyone happy.

You even get to bypass immigration when getting off and on at the non-US ports you visit.  Sometimes you will have to pass through an immigration area but they generally just make sure you have your cruise ID card with you. Don’t get too excited, though, you will still have to go through customs when you return to the US and disembark.

Still, with everything booked all in one place, it makes for a much easier process.

The Cons of Cruising

Con: Lots of people in one place

One of the biggest complaints about cruising is just the sheer number of people in one place. Of course, when you’re on the ship everyone is “stuck” there. And while there are some large cruise ships, that’s still a lot of people in one relatively small place.

Even when you get off the ship, almost everyone else will be getting off the ship too. There might even be a couple of other ships in port with you. Thus, even on land, it might be difficult to avoid the crowds.

Plan your activities carefully, though, and you’ll be rewarded. When we visited Nassau, there were several cruise ships in port. And, yes, right around the port was very crowded. We opted to head out to Fort Charlotte, which is a couple of miles away. Honestly, once we got a couple of blocks away from the main shopping area we immediately felt the relief from the crowds. 

Check out our article on how to spend one day in Nassau.

The Spinnaker Lounge aboard the Norwegian Sky was easily our favorite bar on the boat. It's reasonably quiet and has great views.
The Spinnaker Lounge aboard the Norwegian Sky was easily our favorite bar on the boat. It’s reasonably quiet and has great views.

Even on the ship, you’ll likely be able to find a quiet spot to “hide” if you explore enough. Each ship will be different, but every ship we’ve ever been on has had at least one bar that we could generally count on to be quiet with good service. That said, we had difficulty finding a “quiet bar” on the Norwegian Breakaway.

Read about our Western Caribbean cruise on the Norwegian Breakaway.

Yes, the pool and the buffet will just about always be crowded. You’ll just have to accept that. Just don’t be afraid to look around for a quiet spot. You’ll likely find it – and a lot of other interesting parts of the ship too!

Pro Tip: Spend the first afternoon of your cruise exploring the ship. That way, you don’t miss out on any hidden spots during your trip!

Con: Food can get repetitive

One of the best parts of a cruise is unlimited, free food. Unfortunately, that food can get repetitive on a long cruise. That’s why specialty restaurants are so popular now. While it can be annoying to pay more for a meal, sometimes it’s worth it by the fifth night.

Le Bistro
Bonnie enjoying coq au vin at Le Bistro aboard the Breakaway.

Most cruise dining rooms have a set standard menu with the same classic dishes offered nightly. In addition, you’ll find “specialty” dishes that change nightly. Typically, the menu changes enough to keep it fresh. Sometimes you just want a change of scenery, though. Or, perhaps, you’re just not interested in anything on the menu one night.

Having the option of specialty dining is nice at those times. We particularly enjoyed Moderno, a Brazilian steakhouse onboard the Norwegian Pearl and Norwegian Breakaway. The Italian restaurant aboard the Adventure of the Seas was so good we went twice in one week. Onboard the Regal Princess, we had some of the best pizza ever at Alfredo’s! And, sometimes, you just want something fun like Johnny Rockets, also on the Adventure of the Seas.

We have found a few complimentary specialty restaurants, others charge a flat fee and some have a la carte pricing. Yes, it’s a little annoying to pay extra for food when you could get it for free. But, sometimes it’s worth it for the variety.

Con: Additional costs can really add up

One somewhat common myth about cruising is that it’s an all-inclusive vacation. The truth is that for most ships, a lot of costs are included but there are many optional costs that can add up quickly.

In terms of food and drink, you certainly can get away without paying any additional costs. You’ll probably want to pay for at least a few drinks, though, even if that is just soda or coffee. Yep, even soft drinks often cost extra on a cruise. You can pay for drink packages ahead of time, though, which will reduce your onboard charges.

Another likely expense is excursions. In each port, you’ll have a variety of options for things to do. You can book your adventures on your own or through the ship. You can even explore the port on your own. 

Exploring on your own is free, other than any shopping or museum entrance fees you might opt for. Guided tours or excursions can cost just about anything. I’d say most tours will cost at least $80 a person and can cost up to several hundred dollars, depending on the activity.

As mentioned previously, some onboard activities may cost extra as well. Even with a prepaid drink package, wine tastings usually carry a small fee. 

Finally, don’t forget transportation to and from the port and possibly lodging before and/or after the cruise. The good part is that you are very much in control of these costs.

Con: Less flexibility with your itinerary

When booking your cruise, think about the itinerary carefully because you won’t have any control over it later. For instance, we have been to St. Thomas in the US Virgin Islands and really don’t feel the need to return. It is a popular stop on many Caribbean cruises, though. 

Overlooking the cruise port at St. Kitts
The city of Basseterre is the capital of St. Kitts and is a relatively small town.

One cruise we’ve had our eye on is a Southern Caribbean cruise to Aruba, Bonaire and Curacao. This, of course, is a fairly lengthy cruise if sailing out of South Florida. Fitting it into our school breaks has proven to be difficult thus far. So, when we discovered the new Norwegian Viva would sail there from San Juan, we jumped on it! That cruise is booked for February 2025 with our friends, Dave and Jen.

Finally, be prepared that your itinerary could change for any reason. If you are traveling during hurricane season weather can always prompt a change. My feeling on this, though, is that it’s better to be on a ship that can typically avoid a storm than stuck on an island that you can’t get off.

Relaxing on the beach at Great Stirrup Cay
Relaxing on the beach at Great Stirrup Cay, Norwegian’s private island in the Bahamas.

On our Bahamas cruise, Norwegian informed us as we boarded that the itinerary changed to include the same ports but in a different order. That really was not a big deal but we certainly would have preferred the relaxing day on the beach at the end rather than at the beginning.

The most significant change, though was our 5-night Western Caribbean cruise on the Regal Princess. It was originally supposed to be a 3-night cruise to the Bahamas. A few months before the cruise, Princess completely changed the itinerary at no additional cost. While it did require us to take a day off work, we jumped on the opportunity to see more places for the same price.

Choose an itinerary you know you will enjoy. If it changes, well, that’s just part of the adventure of travel. And, if there is a particular port you’re not excited about, know that you can stay on the ship. In fact, that is a great time to actually enjoy some peace and quiet in the main areas.

Con: Destinations are often overly touristy

Let’s be honest, most cities with a cruise port make the vast majority of their money off of tourists. They do that by offering adventure activities and shopping opportunities that may or may not be authentic to the region.

Freeport, Bahamas cruise port
The cruise ship dock is located pretty far from the main town but there is a small area of shops and restaurants located right there.

With that, it can sometimes be difficult to truly experience the local culture. We have found that exploring on our own offers the best opportunity to try the local cuisine or experience a local tradition. 

When you get off a cruise ship, the vast majority of the time you’ll find the same duty-free stores at every port. You’re almost guaranteed to find stores selling perfume, jewelry, electronics and alcohol. While I love a good duty-free liquor store, I’d much prefer to visit a local distillery with a unique spirit that I can’t get at home. 

Bonnie sampling some of the rum at the John Watling's Distillery.
Bonnie sampling some of the rum at the John Watling’s Distillery.

If shopping is your thing, you’ll have plenty of opportunities on a cruise. Most cruise ships will even offer the opportunity to shop with an expert or provide shopping tips the day before each port. If you just want to find a local souvenir, you may have to get off the main drag. Most of the time you can find the local stores just a couple of blocks away from the ship.

The Final Pro: Most cruises have something for everyone

If you’re not sure you’ll enjoy cruising, I say give it a try and find out for yourself. You can start with a short and inexpensive three- or four-night cruise. See what you like and don’t like. 

Party on the pool deck. The pool is often crowded on a cruise.
There’s just about always a party on the pool deck on any cruise ship.

For those who like adventure, choose a couple of excursions that will give you the opportunity to explore and try something new. If you prefer to sit on the beach, that is almost always an option when in port. Or you can just stay on the ship. These are also great ways to save money!

If you’re traveling with a large group, there are plenty of activities for everyone. When we traveled with Grant’s family on an Alaska cruise in 2018, we enjoyed doing things all together on some days and choosing separate activities on other days. 

Fitness center on Norwegian Pearl
Need to get away for a workout to burn off those calories? Just about every ship we have been on has some sort of gym.

Most ships have a kids’ activity center for those who want or need child care. Some ships have an adults-only pool and lounge area. You’ll certainly find a variety of bars on a cruise. To balance that, most ships also offer AA meetings. There really is something for just about everyone.

Final Thoughts on the Pros and Cons of Cruises

Just like any other type of travel, cruising has its pros and cons. I’m sure everyone can find something that they love and something that they hate. Don’t let someone else’s thoughts influence you if you’re never been on a cruise. In fact, I’d even say you need to take at least two cruises before you really decide if it’s for you or not. Every cruise line is different and every ship is different. 

Karaoke on Norwegian Pearl
Karaoke in the Bliss Ultra Nightclub.

When you’re choosing your vacation, weigh the pros and cons of cruises to determine what you can and can’t live with. Really don’t like crowds? Choose a smaller ship. Want to stay busy when you’re on the ship? Choose a large ship with a good variety of activities. Want to see as much as possible? Choose an itinerary with a large number of ports. 

If you’re new to cruising, do your research and don’t be afraid to ask questions. We use Cruise Critic when we are researching a particular cruise or boat. While there certainly can be frustrations when cruising, it really is a great way to travel.

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